***:::10 principles for peace of mind::::***

1. Do Not Interfere In Others' Business Unless Asked. Most of us create our own problems by interfering too often in others' affairs. We do so because somehow we have convinced ourselves that our way is the best way, our logic is the perfect logic and those who do not conform to our thinking must be criticized and steered to the right direction, our direction. This thinking denies the existence of individuality and consequently the existence of God.. God has created each one of us in a unique way. No two human beings can think or act in exactly the same way.. All men or women act the way they do because God within them prompts them that way. Mind your own business and you will keep your peace. 2. Forgive And Forget: This is the most powerful aid to peace of mind. We often develop ill feelings inside our heart for the person who insults us or harms us. We nurture grievances. This in turn results in loss of sleep, development of stomach ulcers, and high blood pressure. This insult or injury was done once, but nourishing of grievance goes on forever by constantly remembering it. Get over this bad habit. Life is too short to waste in such trifles. Forgive, Forget, and march on. Love flourishes in giving and forgiving. 3. Do Not Crave For Recognition: This world is full of selfish people. They seldom praise anybody without selfish motives. They may praise you today because you are in power, but no sooner than you are powerless, they will forget your achievement and will start finding faults in you. Why do you wish to kill yourself in striving for their recognition? Their recognition is not worth the aggravation. Do your duties ethically and sincerely. 4. Do Not Be Jealous: We all have experienced how jealousy can disturb our peace of mind. You know that you work harder than your colleagues in the office, but sometimes they get promotions; you do not. You started a business several years ago, but you are not as successful as your neighbor whose business is only one year old. There are several examples like these in everyday life. Should you be jealous? No. Remember everybody's life is shaped by his/her destiny, which has now become his/her reality. If you are destined to be rich, nothing in the world can stop you. If you are not so destined, no one can help you either. Nothing will be gained by blaming others for your misfortune. Jealousy will not get you anywhere; it will only take away your peace of mind. 5. Change Yourself According To The Environment: If you try to change the environment single-handedly, the chances are you will fail. Instead, change yourself to suit your environment. As you do this, even the environment, which has been unfriendly to you, will mysteriously change and seem congenial and harmonious. 6. Endure What Cannot Be Cured: This is the best way to turn a disadvantage into an advantage. Every day we face numerous inconveniences, ailments, irritations, and accidents that are beyond our control. If we cannot control them or change them, we must learn to put up with these things. We must learn to endure them cheerfully. Believe in yourself and you will gain in terms of patience, inner strength and will power. 7. Do Not Bite Off More Than You Can Chew: This maxim needs to be remembered constantly. We often tend to take more responsibilities than we are capable of carrying out. This is done to satisfy our ego. Know your limitations.. Why take on additional loads that may create more worries? You cannot gain peace of mind by expanding your external activities. Reduce your material engagements and spend time in prayer, introspection and meditation. This will reduce those thoughts in your mind that make you restless. Uncluttered mind will produce greater peace of mind. 8. Meditate Regularly: Meditation calms the mind and gets rid of disturbing thoughts. This is the highest state of peace of mind. Try and experience it yourself. If you meditate earnestly for half an hour everyday, your mind will tend to become peaceful during the remaining twenty-three and half-hours. Your mind will not be easily disturbed as it was before. You would benefit by gradually increasing the period of daily meditation. You may think that this will interfere with your daily work. On the contrary, this will increase your efficiency and you will be able to produce better results in less time. 9. Never Leave The Mind Vacant: An empty mind is the devil's workshop. All evil actions start in the vacant mind. Keep your mind occupied in something positive, something worthwhile. Actively follow a hobby. Do something that holds your interest. You must decide what you value more: money or peace of mind. Your hobby, like social work or religious work, may not always earn you more money, but you will have a sense of fulfillment and achievement. Even when you are resting physically, occupy yourself in healthy reading or mental chanting of God's name. 10. Do Not Procrastinate And Never Regret: Do not waste time in protracted wondering " Should I or shouldn't I?" Days, weeks, months, and years may be wasted in that futile mental debating. You can never plan enough because you can never anticipate all future happenings. Value your time and do the things that need to be done. It does not matter if you fail the first time. You can learn from your mistakes and succeed the next time. Sitting back and worrying will lead to nothing. Learn from your mistakes, but do not brood over the past. DO NOT REGRET. Whatever happened was destined to happen only that way. Why cry over spilt milk?

***:::HOW TO DO BUSINESS::::***

Father: I want you to marry a girl of my choice
Son: 'I will choose my own bride!'
Father: 'But the girl is Bill Gate's daughter.'
Son: 'Well, in that case...ok'

Next Day Father approaches Bill Gates.
Father: 'I have a husband for your daughter.'
Bill Gates: 'But my daughter is too young to marry!'
Father: 'But this young man is a vice-president of the World Bank.'
Bill Gates: 'Ah, in that case...ok'

Finally, Father goes to see the president of the World Bank.
Father: 'I have a young man to be recommended as a vice-president. '
President: 'But I already have more vice- presidents than I need!'
Father: 'But this young man is Bill Gates's son-in-law.'
President: 'Ah, in that case...ok'

This is how business is done!!

SOURCED,

shafeeq dubai

LIFE

...............:STAGES IN LIFE:..............

Teen Age:
have money + energy...but no money

Working Age:
have money + energy...but no time

Old Age:
have time + money...but no energy

..................:DEATH CANNOT BE CLOSER THAN THIS:..................

..............:LIFE IS TOO SHORT:.............

-BEAUTIFUL LESSON-

The girl in the picture is Katie Kirkpatrick, she is 21 . Next to her, her fiancé, Nick, 23.
The picture was taken shortly before their wedding ceremony, held on January 11, 2005 in the US .
Katie has terminal cancer and spend hours a day receiving medication.
In the picture, Nick is waiting for her on one of the many sessions of chemo to end.

In spite of all the pain, organ failures, and morphine shots, Katie is going along with her wedding and took care
of every detail. The dress had to be adjusted a few times due to her constant weight loss

An unusual accessory at the party was the oxygen tube that Katie used throughout the ceremony and reception as well.
The other couple in the picture are Nick's parents. Excited to see their son marrying his high school sweetheart.

Katie, in her wheelchair with the oxygen tube , listening to a song from her husband and friends

At the reception, katie had to take a few rests. The pain did not allow her to stand for long periods

Katie died five days after her wedding day. Watching a woman so ill and weak getting married and with a smile on her face makes us think..... Happiness is reachable, no matter how long it lasts . We should stop making our lives complicated. Make the best out of it! Life is short Break the rules forgive quickly love truly laugh constantly And never stop smiling no matter how strange life is Life is not always the party we expected to be but as long as we are here, we should smile and be grateful.

WHAT SHOULD I DO?

What should i do?

memandangkan da xde keje nak buat.ku ringan kan tangan untuk bercerita di blog. org yg sentiasa berfikiran positif pernah berkata .Each problem has a solution.sejauh mana kebenaran nye.haa..antara yg boleh kita nampak dgn mata kasar adalah spt dibawah:

sgt kreatif

boleh juge..

jadila..

sempoi..

rock..

layan..

ouchh..

Zasss..

Zzzzz...

adakh telah terbukti setiap masalah ad penyelesaiannya..?fullstop.

sedang membelek email.tibe2x ak terbaca email dari membe lame.
(act bukan tibe2x terbaca tp mmg sengaje baca nak ambil utk jadikan point) (~.~)

email nye berbunyi begini..

WHAT is it that's hard to break???
Diamonds are hard to find but not hard to break.
What is the hardest thing to break then?
The answer is:HABIT!
if you break the H, you still have A BIT.
If you break the A,you still have BIT,
If you break the B, you still have IT,
Hey, after you break the T in IT, there is still the "I".
And that "I" is the root cause of all problems that
you/me/all are facing.
is it?
*itulah yang dimaksudkan dgn manusia sukar bercerai dgn tabiat masing2x yg jadi punca masalah.

kadang kala hati manusia gelisah, sedih dan mcm2x perasaan negatif muncul dalam hati bila seseorg ditimpa musibah @ masalah..
as well as me (T-T).innalillah..aku cuba cr dimana kah silap ny ak..lalu ap yg aku jumpe adalah ini:

Subhanallah
Dengan nama Allah s.w.t. yang Maha Agung, Maha Pemurah, Maha Pengasih, Maha Penyayang, Maha Pengampun dan segala Puji-pujian serta Kebesaran yang selayak dengan Kekuasaan-Nya yang mengandungi Keberkatan, Kelazatan, Kemanisan, Ketenangan dan Ketenteraman yang tidaklah tersembunyi kepada orang yang pernah menyebut nama yang suci itu dan pernah mencintai-Nya buat beberapa lama.

Allah s.w.t. tidak membebani seseorang melainkan sesuai dengan kesanggupannya. Ia mendapat pahala dari kebajikan yang diusahakannya dan mendapat siksa dari kejahatan yang dikerjakannya. Mereka berdoa "Ya Tuhan kami, jangan Engkau bebankan orang-orang yang sebelum kami. Ya Tuhan kami janganlah Engkau pikulkan kepada kami apa yang tidak sanggup kami memikulnya. Maafkanlah kami, ampunilah kami; dan rahmatilah kami, Engkaulah penolong kami, tolonglah kami atas orang-orang kafir."

(Surah AL-BAQARAH: 286)

Amin..

sebagai insan dan hamba.sentiasa lah bersangka baik dengan Allah S.W.T.

wallahualam..

Nifsu Sya'ban : Fadhilatnya Sahih TETAPI tiada amalan khusus pada hari tersebut.

Nifsu Sya'ban : Fadhilatnya Sahih TETAPI tiada amalan khusus pada hari tersebut.

KETENANGAN HATI

.:KETENANGAN HATI:.

Dengan Nama Allah Yang Maha Pemurah Lagi Maha Penyayang

Sering kutitipkan doa agar kita semua sentiasa berada di bawah payungan rahmat dan HidayahNya Yang Maha Esa

Dalam kekalutan dunia pada ketika ini..daku amat berharap agar Allah sudi mengampunkan kita semua..
dalam keadaan manusia tidak lagi takut kepada Tuhannya..
dalam keadaan manusia tidak lagi membezakan antara yang hak dan yang batil.
dan dalam keadaan manusia tidak lagi dapat membezakan yang mana pahala dan yang mana dosa..
Moga-moga doa yang selalu kita pohon di makbulkan oleh Nya
Walaupun daam kehidupan seharian kita kadang kala kita lupa kepadaNYa
dan kadangkala kita ingat kepadaNya..
tapi yangg pasti terlalu banyak masa kita habiskan bukan untukNya
buat permata Islam..
yang sudah tentu dikasihi Allah dan dirindui Nabi..
Sesungguh nya Islam itu bukan sekadar agama..tetapi adalah cara hidup kita..
sama ada cara kita berpakaian ..bertutur..belajar..bekerja..atau denan perkataan yang lebih mudah..bermula kehidupan kita daripada bangun tidur sehingga kita tidur kembali..
Semua Allah telah gariskan untuk kita lahir sehinggalah kita ditempatkan di dalam liang lahad..
Islam juga telah mengajar caranya..

Sering kali kita mendengar Rasulullah S.A.W yang bermaksud..
"Islam itu tinggi tiada yang tinggi selainnya"

Tapi sayang sekali ..kita yang merendah-rendahkannya ..kita menjauhkan diri daripadanya..bahkan kita malu apabila Islam menjadi identiti kita..
Kita lalai dengan kehidupan kita..sehingga kita menyangka dunialah syurga yg kekal abadi untuk kita..sehingga kita lupa Allah S.W.T Tuhan Yang Maha Esa sedang memerhatikan kita..Kita tahu adanya Allah tapi kita melanggari perintah Nya..sombongnya kita kerana kita lupa kepada Pemberi segala nikmat sehingga kita menjadi ornag yang kufur kepadaNya..
Kita tahu benarnya Al-Quran tapi kita tidak mengambil pengajaran daripadanya..
Kita juga tahu adanya dosa dan pahala ..bahkan kita juga tahu adanya Syurga dan Neraka..
Tapi kita masih tidka mempedulikan perintah Allah S.W.T Yang Maha Kuasa..

Prof Dr Hamka pernah berkata ..
"Kita boleh menghitung usia kita yang telah kita gunakan ..tetapi kita tidak boleh menghitung berapa lagi usia kita masih tinggal"

Masihkah engkau ingat akan firman Allah S.W.T dalam Hadith QudsiNya yang bermaksud..
Daripada Abu Hurairah r.a..
Aku sesuai dengan dugaan hambaKu kepada Ku..
Dan Aku bersama dengannya..ketika dia ingat kepada Ku..
Jika dia ingat kepadaKu didalam hatinya..
Aku akan mengingatinya didalam hatiKu..
Dan jika dia ingat kepadaKu..dalam khalayak ramai..
nescaya Aku juga akan mengingatinya dalam lingkungan khalayak ramai yang lebih baik..
dan jika mendekatiku sejengkal..
Aku pun akan mendekatinya sehasta..
Dan jika dia mendekatiKu sehasta..
nescaya Aku mendekatinya sedepa..
dan jika dia datang kepadaKu berjalan ...
maka Aku mendatanginya dengan berlari..
-Hadith Riwayat Syaikhani dan Tarmidzi-

Walau sebesar Bukit Uhud sekalipn dosa kita lakukan ..
sesungguhnya Allah S.W.T masih mengampunkan dosa kita..
Oleh itu ,kembalilah kepadaNya ..andaikata hidup ini telah jauh dari landasan yang ditentukan olehNya..
Sesungguhnya kasih sayang Allah membatasi kasih sayang seluruh makhlukNya..

source:warkah syurga

"Hai orang-orang yang beriman jadikanlah sabar & solat sebagai penolongmu,
sesungguhnya Allah beserta orang-orang yang sabar".
(Al-Baqarah:Ayat 153)


Zikir taubat




Ampunilah hamba, Ya Allah,Maha Penerima Taubat
Ampunilah hamba, Ya Allah daripada segala dosa
Ampunilah hamba, Ya Allah,Maha Penerima Taubat
Ampunilah hamba, Ya Allah daripada segala dosa
Ampunilah hamba, Ya Allah,Maha Penerima Taubat
Ampunilah hamba, Ya Allah daripada segala dosa
Tambahkan kepadaku ilmu yang berguna
dan berikan aku amalan yang dimakbulkan
dan berikan kepadaku rezeki yang meluas
dan perkenankan taubatku dengan taubat nasuha
Ampunilah hamba, Ya Allah,Maha Penerima Taubat
Ampunilah hamba, Ya Allah daripada segala dosa
Ampunilah hamba, Ya Allah,Maha Penerima Taubat
Ampunilah hamba, Ya Allah daripada segala dosa
Tambahkan kepadaku ilmu yang berguna
dan berikan aku amalan yang dimakbulkan
dan berikan kepadaku rezeki yang meluas
dan perkenankan taubatku dengan taubat nasuha

SURAH AL-HADID

.:SURAH AL-HADID:.

On the day you shall see the believing men and believing women

Their light running forward before then and by their right hands

Glad tidings for you this day!

Gardens under which rivers flow to live therein forever!

Truly,this is the greatest success!

On the Day when the hypocrites-men and women –will say to the believers:

“Wait for us!Let us get something from your light!”

It will be said:

“Go back to your rear! Then seek a light!”

So a wall will be put up between them, with a gate therein.

Inside it will be mercy and outside it will be torment.

The hypocrities will call the believers:”Were we not with you?”

The believers will reply:”Yes!But you lead yourselves into temptations”.

“you looked forward to our destruction, you doubted in faith and you wre deceived by false desires till the command of Allah came to pass”

“And the chief deceiver(satan) deceived you in respect of Allah.”

So this Day no ransom shall be taken from you (hypocrites),nor those who disbelieved

You abode is the Fire..

This is your friend ,and worst indeed is that destination.

Has not the time come for those believe to be affected by

Allah’s Reminder (this Al-Quran)

And that which has been revealed of the truth.

Lest they become as those who received the Scripture before (Jews & Christians)

So the term was prolonged for them and so their hearts were hardened?

And many of them were disobedient (to Allah).